<iframe title="how we think of love is messed up" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/GU4NWj3sDzk?feature=oembed" height="113" width="200" style="aspect-ratio: 1.76991 / 1; width: 100%; height: 100%;" allowfullscreen="" allow="fullscreen"></iframe> **Duration:** 9:57 **Language:** **Complexity:** **Topics:** # šŸ“’ Personal Notes --- date: 2024-03-20 --- # YouTube ![]() ## Description: -> [Youtube video Link](https://www.youtube.com/embed/GU4NWj3sDzk) ## Summary: In this video, the speaker discusses the complexities of relationships, focusing on the concept of love through the lens of existentialist philosophy and ethical concerns. The speaker highlights how societal norms and gender roles shape our expectations and behaviors in relationships and explains the pitfalls of narcissism and devotion in romantic connections. Through the philosophy of Simone de Beauvoir, the video emphasizes the importance of ethical love, which involves mutual respect, balance, and genuine understanding between partners. - The asymmetry of love expectations - Gender differences in love and relationships - Ethical love as a balance between self-interest and selflessness Topics and themes: Romance, Gender roles, Ethical relationships